ya makanyaa..

after abit of struggling with ym calling due to net jakarta yg agak slowmo,too much smog myb, finally i cn hv a looong conversation with hana sambil2 lipat bj n play with my pet,roy.multitasking mmg my talent..hmm kesian ana.

"han,ok x if i get dat iphone?sms best..net..blabla..u tink?"
"hmm best u tink u need it"
"u tgk ni..die bla bla bla *link*. abg tu kate die book for me lg 4 days amik.kl ana bli ana jual my htc n jez add rup4juta." pufff..offline.
online blk aftr a few mins bila mn i tgh do other stuff.attempt to call no.8.still..cnt reach.my chest suddenly rs congested.rs nk burst.aa geramnyee..then got it..
"helo..haa ani so how?shud i?ashraf pon pkai best je.bla3.." - aaa,same repeat ques.
"u ni kn ana..kl u nk bli bli laa.kl ana tanye ani pon bt u rs u nk bli,u bli jgk kn.n u noe better abt ur financial,nnt regret,bla3..bla3..bla3.." - tone yg obviously annoyed."but ana nk tanye ibu dlu laa.nk pinjam duit ibu..bla3.."
"aisshh yeke pinjam..u g la tanye ibu dlu..bla3" - annoyed tone lg
"hmm,u ni kan..xpe laa"
"huh?waat??i ni knape..?" - huhu i noe i was a horriblesnotty monster jez now..
"hmm xde laa.u bc je laa enab nye entry in our blog.nnt u tau laa.how to be a gud listener.bkn sbb u ke ape.(yeah ritee)bt i tink mmg bgs laa kl u,kite bc.ala u tau,yg 7 habits tu.." - ecece..nk promote laa kn blog gcc diorg tu,hee..zuupp..i rs guilty.hmm i bli je dat book bt "nvr" had d time to read it.huhu
"sorry dear i was a bad bad listener.yelaa,ani tgh..rs xbeeest je arini..sorry laa"
- yela tu,tau sndiri la,u mmg not a gud listener :s

habit #5: seek first to understand, then to be understoodby Stephen R. Covey
People tend to filter the information they receive through their own paradigms, reading their autobiography into other people's lives, or projecting their own home movies onto other people's behavior.
When another person is speaking, we usually "listen" at one of four levels: ignoring, pretending, selective listening, or attentive listening. We should be using the fifth, highest form of listening - empathic listening.
Active or reflective listening is skill-based and often insults the speaker.
Empathic listening is listening with intent to understand the other person's frame of reference and feelings. You must listen with your ears, your eyes and your heart.
Empathic listening is a tremendous deposit into the emotional bank account. It's deeply therapeutic and healing because it gives a person "psychological air."

- special thx to enab frm GCC for dis enlightenment :):)